Oh, here in Florida we use our A/C on Christmas. No A/C no car, so I sympathize with Mr Rats dilemma, In his case what is the best course of action, more on that later.
You are correct many shops will refuse or charge extra if they find contaminated R134a in your system. However the term contamination refers to the purity of the R134a gas, and that means free of other gases like air, butane, propane, R22 and my fav R 409 the shops want to avoid contaminating their recovered R134a and the recycled R134a they then resell to their customers. I can see how a person might think that a sealer and or oil would qualify as a contaminate but it dose not. The recovery machines have a built in means to separate the gas from the oil and any other liquids.
Competent shops have this just for Cliplight marked cars.
Robinair 17622 A/c System Sealant Remover
Now lets help Mr.Rat, He has some tough decisions to make.
Keep in mind $2300 gets you a brand new Honda for one year, zero down $189 mo.
I have no Idea What Mr. Rats car is worth but whatever it is, a $2300 repair will add zero value to the car.
Would a $40 injection of Cliplight sealer save Mr. Rats evaporator? Who knows.
If the sealer did work would Mr. Rat have more time to prepare for a total rebuild of his AC? Would it work long enough for Mr. Rat to sell his car?
As I recall a W210 compressor, hose, condenser, hose, dryer, hose, expansion valve, evaporator, hose and all O-rings is less than $1500 and labor 16 hrs @ $60.00 comes to +- $2500 so Mr Rat needs to shop around for a better deal, than he has now for just the evaporator, if he intends to keep his car.
I'm thinking Mr. Rat will be shopping for his next ride.